I grew up being told to defend myself. You probably did too.
And I have to admit it: my instincts used to tell me the exact same. Sometimes they still do. But I know now that the best defence that I can ever get is not my own, or anyone else’s.
It is the wise, timeless and powerful defence from the One who is the master of everything we see (and cannot see).
Relying on God to do the weight lifting takes confidence in his love, trust in his ways and faith in his power to transform us.
We become stronger when we stop defending ourselves and let God defend us instead. While we might fail, he always succeeds and does exactly what needs to be done to deliver us from our oppressors and bring peace to our lives.
Relying on God to defend us is a daily exercise.
But his strength becomes our strength when we let him take over from us. All we have to do is step back and watch his love at play making the impossible possible in every aspect of our lives.
The Good News bring us hope and peace. Which is why we should never use them to crush others and frame them as sinners.
We are all sinners and capable of the same things.
As we start navigating the Word, we will realize all these horrible things about ourselves and others. But we do so with the confidence and peace of mind that God forgave us through Jesus.
There are also a million other sins we won’t be aware of. Possibly things this world looks up to. And with God lifting the burden of guilt from us with his forgiveness, we will be able to, under his grace, make better choices as we move forward.
It is only when we put love (=God) first that our lives reflect His love, peace, forgiveness and hope.
And the greatest of all these is love.
We are called to love one another, not judge one another.
There are many layers of understanding to uncover when we desire to have a relationship with God, but the hardest one to reach is the understanding that religion has nothing to do with God. This includes Christianity in all its denominations, and even its non-denominations.
Our lives might look a certain way from the outside, but only God knows what’s in our hearts. We are called to follow Jesus, not Christianity, which is a world system that tells us what our lives should be like and who we have to be to belong.
A lot of us seem to refuse to accept that Christianity is a religion and, as such, just as problematic as every other religion that has ever been created by men. Yes, religion is and has always been an obstacle between us and God’s love.
Jesus teaches us that we can not separate wheat from chaff. Yet being a Christian is largely about saying who’s living a godly life and who’s not. This is also why most churches are empty.
I am often appalled by the oppressive Christian beliefs about our sexuality, which reveals their legalistic systems.
As a friend of loving people who are gay, I can absolutely not stand the oppressive Christian preaching that singles them out as if they were the worst sinners in the world.
What about the heart of stone ready to exclude and condemn someone for love, albeit same-sex? Is that not sinful? Remember, mercy always triumphs over judgment. God is not going to send a loving brother to hell because of his sexual orientation.
As a woman, I can absolutely not stand the oppressive Christian preaching about virginity and marriage for life. This is being preached among many who are abused, abusers or too conservative to promote a satisfying relationship.
When we pervert Jesus’ message of love to promote a deeply legalistic and religious lifestyle, it becomes evil and oppresses people instead of saving them into a gracious spiritual life.
Following Jesus and abiding to Christianity are thus mutually exclusive. Yes, there are followers of Jesus who happen to attend Christian churches, because there is a good community there. Yet the vast majority of Christians are not followers of Jesus.
Christians’ conviction that believing into Jesus requires religious knowledge and practice shows a profound lack of understanding of God’s almighty power and plan for every one of us.
Following Jesus, not abiding to Christianity, is what saves us from our own pursuits of adequacy and worthiness. He calls us to lose our lives so we can become a home to his life-giving love.
Remember, our God is a God of the lost. After he finds us, we still desperately need his loving grace to guide us along the way.
Mystic practices keep us from enjoying God’s almighty power. We are called to walk by faith – forgiven, eternally loved and enjoying peace that exceeds all understanding.
It was only several months after my conversion that I realized how people who sought mysticism had a gloom to them, just like I had as an atheist. They couldn’t see it, but I could.
And I did not want that “life” anymore.
I wanted the glowing love and peace that I saw in people who relied exclusively on God and had a personal relationship with him. I knew that was only possible when we became completely free from a religion, denomination or practice.
Mystic practices and rituals like astrology, hypnosis, meditation and healers are for those who don’t walk by faith. For those who haven’t experienced the almighty power of God’s love yet.
As a catholic, I was open to mystic practices that never brought good to my life. I was even more open to them when I became an atheist, after realizing the God of religion did not exist.
Even after my conversion, I was still open to mysticism. The vast majority of us who call ourselves believers continue to be misguided about God’s calling and pursue rituals. But there is always time to turn completely to his loving wisdom.
There’s no greater power than the eternal love from the One who created everything, including you and I.
Thanks to Jesus’ teachings, we understand that all we have to do is believe onto him and love one another. Then God will make his home in us and lead us with his powerful loving grace.
I watched Schindler’s List for the first time a few weeks ago. The resilience of those people while facing the absolute worst of humanity could only have come from God. They would have never made it without him, and neither would we.
I believe all our sufferings are relevant. But watching a movie on such a horrific story really puts things into perspective. It is a tough watch, but a humbling experience. Our sufferings look so small compared to these dehumanizing events.
Another key aspect of our dark history is how often it takes a monster to defeat another monster. We know God has used ruthless characters to defeat oppressors of his people.
Although it might look like these ruthless individuals are doing what’s right, we are not in a position to justify them or rely on them. Their cruel actions have good outcomes exclusively because God can bring good out of any situation.
It is God who gives us the resilience to walk through the most terrifying moments with the confidence that they will yield good outcomes of a spiritual nature in our lives.
Holding on to his love saves us from losing our ability to be grateful, loving and forgiving in the cruelest of circumstances.
As we walk with God, we know everything is going to pass. At the end of the tunnel, there is light, goodness and unfailing love.
When I was an atheist, two psychologists helped me navigate and cope with a series of life events that crushed me. But they never healed me. I never healed until I surrendered to Love.
To say that I was hanging by a thread would be an understatement. And although I have a lot of appreciation for deeply humane and loving psychologists like the ones who helped me, there’s only so much they can do.
I couldn’t imagine myself going one week without therapy. At that point I felt emotionally crippled. My life was a full-time burden.
That’s when I did the unimaginable. One night I surrendered and asked God for help. Being an atheist, I had no idea what I was doing. But I had a crushed, humble heart as I called him. And God listened.
God healed overnight what two different psychologists couldn’t heal in years.
For the first time in my life I knew that there was one who loved me just the way I always wanted to be loved. And his divine love set me free.
God’s love worked in me to forgive others who had been the root cause of a lot of emotional turmoil in my life. And he also taught me to forgive myself.
Without God’s love, I could never have healed.
It is his divine and eternal love in me that makes it possible to forgive everyone and the world everyday, regardless of merit. And heal.